The "Lonely CEO" Syndrome: Why You Cannot Scale Your ABA Agency Alone

Dan Dube • January 25, 2026

Category: Leadership & Culture

It’s 7:30 PM on a Tuesday. The clinic is dark. The RBTs have gone home, your Scheduler clocked out hours ago, and your cleaning crew just walked in.

But you are still at your desk.

You have three tabs open: one for payroll (which is due tomorrow), one for a confusing denial from United Healthcare, and one for a parent email complaining about a technician's tardiness.

You are exhausted. You are overwhelmed. And most of all, you are lonely.

This is what I call "The Lonely CEO Syndrome."

In the ABA industry, this is the silent killer of high-potential agencies. It isn't a lack of clinical skill that caps your growth—it’s the belief that you have to carry the weight of the entire organization on your own back.

The "Super-BCBA" Trap

Most ABA agencies are started by incredible clinicians. You started this business because you cared about client outcomes. In the beginning, being the "Super-BCBA" worked. You did the assessments, you hired the staff, you sent the invoices, and you bought the sensory toys on Amazon.

You hustled your way to $1 Million in revenue.


But here is the hard truth: The skills that got you to $1 Million are the exact skills that will prevent you from getting to $5 Million.


You cannot "hustle" your way through scale. When you try to be the CEO, the Clinical Director, and the Operations Manager all at once, you become the bottleneck. Your business can only grow as fast as you can work—and you are already out of hours.


The Solution: The Leadership Triad

If you look at the agencies that successfully scale to $5M, $10M, or exit to private equity, they all share one common trait. The owner stopped trying to be a "Super-Hero" and started building a Leadership Triad.


To scale without burnout, you need three distinct "brains" running your business. These cannot be the same person.


1. The Visionary (You/The CEO)

Focus: Strategy, Culture, and Finance. Your job is not to schedule sessions or debate treatment plans. Your job is to ensure the business is solvent (cash flow), the culture is healthy (retention), and the ship is pointed in the right direction (strategy). If you are doing intake calls, you are neglecting your true job.


2. The Clinical Architect (The Clinical Director)

Focus: Quality, Ethics, and Outcomes. This person is not just a senior BCBA with a bigger caseload. They are the guardian of your "Standard of Care." They need the autonomy to build supervision frameworks, audit clinical notes, and train staff without you looking over their shoulder.


3. The Engine (The Operations Lead)

Focus: Efficiency, Logistics, and Billing. This is the person who ensures the bills get paid and the schedule is full. They bridge the gap between "Clinical Quality" and "Financial Reality." They fight the insurance denials so your clinicians don't have to.


Stop Training Alone

The biggest mistake I see owners make is attending high-level business training alone. They go to a conference, get inspired, learn a new system, and then go back to their office and try to "push" these new ideas onto a team that doesn't understand the vision.

It doesn’t work.


You cannot just delegate tasks; you have to delegate ownership. And to do that, your "generals" need to be in the room where the strategy happens.


From "Me" to "We"

This year, we made a radical change to our own group coaching program, the Grapevine Group. We realized that teaching owners how to run a business wasn't enough. We needed to help them align their entire leadership team.


That is why we changed our membership model. Now, when an agency joins Grapevine, we include three seats: one for the Owner, one for the Clinical Director, and one for the Ops Lead.


We did this because we don't want you to be the smartest person in the room anymore. We want you to be surrounded by a team that understands unit economics, clinical scorecards, and intake pipelines just as well as you do.

The Cure for Loneliness

If you are reading this at 7:30 PM on a Tuesday, take a breath. You have built something amazing. But if you want it to grow, you have to let go.

Build your Triad. Train your generals. And go home at 5:00 PM.


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